Do you ever say to yourself, “I wish I knew what I know now when I was younger”. How much more confident would you be if you did?. Would you be better off, Emotionally or financially, of course we would. But that’s life and it’s called growing up.
“Confidence” is an amazing thing at any age, everyone has different levels and everyone has gaining it in many different ways. I have put together some ways in boasting your confidence that little bit more.
Easier said than done this one, try to realise that you are you, and not anyone else. You cannot be that other person so why not be the best version of you. If you can master this one you are halfway there.
Anything you visualise or expect to happen has a good chance of happening. Positive OR negative it will start to happen. Be very aware of the words, phrases, attitude even the people who you are surrounded by. “Change them” I have changed the people around me and I speak from experience, I’m a different person. “Positively positive”
DONT LET ANYONE DEFINE YOU
You have to let people realise you are who you are, if they don’t like you that way. That’s their problem, and they are not worth having around. You’ll have experienced gossips, even people who you thought were friends that listen to the rumours, they are the ones to get away from. Be you, your true friends you know who you are.
SET PERSONAL GOALS
This is an important one, it can also be one of the most effective when done instantly. Set small goals leading to your big dreams (goals). You will feel amazing once you start to hit them, and don’t stop achieve, it’s all about progress.
Pamper yourself, treat yourself to new clothes or a new hair style. Doing this feels as if it’s a fresh start, boosting your confidence. Plus you’ll look more amazing.
DO WHAT YOU LOVE…
.. and do it constantly. This is another important one, if it’s talking on the phone to friends, do it. If it’s workout with me, do it. What ever makes you smile do it more often. If you can’t find anything just SMILE, a lot.
SPEND TIME WITH YOURSELF.
Forgot the house work or the jobs list you or your partner made. Think
about you for a little while and what’s important to you. Work on yourself and no one else. Your the important one.